Tara Attfield: Tongue & Cheek

10 Dec

DETAILS

Who — Tara Attfield
Social — @TBC-QueenofPop&Chocos!Crunchie

In Summary —Tara Attfield. A woman who shot to notoriety on TikTok, Where a video surfaced of tara sticking her tongue in her child’s mouth, UKdramatok was in uproar. She is the Queen of Begging, Scamming, Lying and of course fiddling the bingo games! Tara is a mum how ever, none of these are in Tara’s care!

Tongue & Cheek But Tara Reeks

Introduction / Overview

Welcome to the absolute carnival of chaos that is Tara Attfield, a walking TikTok cautionary tale who somehow manages to be every headline, every scandal, and every bad decision rolled into one 32-year-old disaster.

This is the woman who went from hotel-hopping on other people’s money, to tent-camping while rattling a digital begging bowl, to finally bagging herself a one-bed flat—courtesy of the followers she manipulates like it’s a full-time bloody job.

Five kids removed. Non-stop lies. Constant scandals. And an online career built on sympathy scams, bingo cons, fetish accounts, and enough contradictions to make a priest start swearing.

This is the unfiltered, uncut, no-bullshit breakdown of Tara Attfield. Buckle up—this one’s a full-blown horror-comedy.

Background Who She Is

Tara is 32 and the proud owner of five children she no longer has access to because social services eventually said, “Absolutely fucking not.”

Before that? A life of running—literally—from Leicester to Leicester, hotel to hotel, claiming harassment, danger, trauma, existential dread… all while magically having enough time and energy to go live every night begging for cash.

She raised money for tents. Raised money for hotel rooms. Raised money for “emergencies.” Shockingly, most of that money fell into the mysterious void that seems to swallow everything she receives except her cigarettes, nails, and takeaways.

She used to milk Facebook for sympathy. Then TikTok. Then Bingo pages. If a platform exists, Tara has begged on it.

And every time she got caught in something? She moved. Played victim. Cried harassment. Then did the exact same shit again. She would make sure was live at any given opportunity to make sure she was safe if anything ever happened, if it did, it was recorded

Personality & Behaviour

Tara’s entire personality could be summarised as:
Manipulative. Chaotic. Loud as fuck. And allergic to accountability.**

She’ll cry she’s terrified of men one minute, then flop into a pub the next week flirting like she’s auditioning for “Love Island: The Poundland Edition.”

This is the same woman who, when confronted about smacking her kid and making him face a wall, proudly declared: “That’s my way of dealing with it. If you don’t like it, fuck off.”**

She screams at her kids on camera, then five minutes later dances around the room announcing:
“I’m a good mum! Report me if you want!”

Her two settings are:

Victim Mode: “People are bullying me, my mental health is fragile, SEND ME MONEY.”
Gobshite Mode: “I’m a great parent, everyone else needs to get a life.”

And let’s not forget “Fetish Queen Tara” — proudly advertising her adult content while describing herself as “Mum of 5 ❤️❤️❤️” in bios that absolutely no mum should ever be writing on an adult site.

This woman changes her story more times than she changes her bedsheets— Which she uses for curtains

Lies, Manipulation & Family Drama

This is Tara’s Olympic sport.
She lies like it's cardio.

A few of her greatest ones:

Claiming she never had a baby → then appearing heavier, exhausted, and vanishing for months.
Saying her new dentures were NHS provided (sure, babe).
“I haven't been to prison.” → User speculation says otherwise.
“My fridge was stolen.” → It was literally the same old fridge.
“I’m broke!” → Nails done, hair done, splurging on 3.5 bags.
“No bingo tonight, refunds will be made.” → Refunds never f**king made.
Scamming through bingo, raffles, duck races, and “mental health boxes.”
Taking money from a literal child for nails.
Pretending someone sent her £600 via Apple Pay—even though that’s impossible.
Claiming the dog is “fine” while the RSPCA says otherwise.
Missing vet appointments because she “overslept.”

Her life is basically one never-ending GoFundMe with a plot twist every three days.

Online Behaviour & Accusations

Tara Attfield has made a name for herself online as a master of dramatic fundraising. From TikTok lives to Facebook posts and online bingo games, she’s been very… creative in asking for help with everything from rent, food, and hotel stays to hair, nails, and even dog care. Her streams often mix genuine emotional appeals with eyebrow-raising calls for gifts, creating a rollercoaster of sympathy, chaos, and occasionally confusion for her followers. And just when you think you’ve caught up, she disappears for a while, only to return with a new “crisis” and a very convincing sob story.

Things get a little darker when it comes to her children. There have been serious allegations, including reports of inappropriate behaviour and aggressive parenting, which led to social services permanently removing her children. Video evidence and Tara’s own admissions on live streams raised major safeguarding concerns. While this is undeniably serious, it’s also clear that Tara’s attempts to publicly explain or justify her actions often come across as bewildering at best, which makes her online persona equal parts tragic and unintentionally hilarious.

Beyond parenting and fundraising, Tara has earned attention for her online antics, including adult content while identifying herself as a parent, and running bingo and raffle streams that sometimes raised eyebrows regarding fairness and transparency. Her tendency to mix dramatic storytelling with self-promotion and frequent blame-shifting has made her a polarising figure: simultaneously entertaining, frustrating, and occasionally concerning. In short, Tara’s online life is like a reality TV show that nobody asked for, but everyone can’t help watching — equal parts chaos, comedy, and controversy

Criminal Allegations

Let’s get into the real horror show.
Tara’s name has been slapped next to everything from child safeguarding concerns to sexual harm allegations to assaultive behaviour.

Highlights include:

Videos of her kissing her child inappropriately (blurred for obvious reasons).
Her own words admitting her son “used to put his tongue down her throat” and she’d “do it back.”
Claims she wished someone would get “raped.”
Possible involvement in a Sexual Harm Prevention Order (SHPO).
Social services officially removing all of her children.

No amount of “mental health break” bullshit can polish this level of rot.

Final Thoughts

Tara Attfield is not just a wrongun—she’s a whole franchise. A full-scale, multi-layered, constantly updating disaster package wrapped in lies, manipulation, and delusion.

Yes, she’s done horrific things.
Yes, the accusations are dark.
Yes, she has harmed her kids, her credibility, her followers, her dog, and her dignity.

But let’s be honest here:
Half the people exposing her also scam, lie, and spiral on live like it’s an Olympic try-out.
That’s the problem. People mix truth with gossip, facts with crackhead fanfiction.

Stick to the actual facts and you’ll see the real story:
Tara built her online empire by preying on sympathy, exploiting her kids, weaponizing trauma, and rinsing anyone gullible enough to send a fiver.

She is the product of her own behaviour.
Every downfall, every exposed lie, every smashed window, every backlash— she earned it. And remember:
Her downfall would be a lot cleaner if the people exposing her weren’t also half a fucking circus themselves.

Billy Foad